LOVE AS WE KNOW IT!!

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LOVE AS WE KNOW IT
A relationship can either break or make you ..so from someone who grew up on a surfeit of mush to someone who balks at the idea of happily ever after ...I have come a long way. From nurturing visions of the perefct other to the realization that true happiness evades those who looks for it in others,  I have come a long way. From a hopeless romantic to a true blue cynic , I have come a  long way …but I am not the only one. The concept of unconditional love is redundant in our times of conditions, its so much  easier to walk away than walk through.  So my conclusion is that the only relation where unconditional love can be a reality and not an illusion is parental love.  Romantic love has undergone a paradigm shift in these days of instant gratification. It is just a phase which wears out. Today anyway does not believe in waiting around for destiny happen   Why should I waste my time on one human being when they are so many out there ? is the common refrain with youngsters .  Is there someone made for me in this world well I don't know , may be I should start looking around and have fun while at it is another frequently used logic . I started the wrong way ...invested too much in one person only to discover its a waste of time., time is precious, time is money is yet another. These days , everything a struggle, a never ending battle so people are searching for zero commitment and hundred percent fulfillment which of course is elusive.  

Someone  said me and there was no us left ...in a sea of faceless duos , we are just another ...all illusions of the perfect other are shattered ,,,there is no other.... only bother ...one comes  alone and goes alone. The sooner you understand this universal truth , the better it is for your emotional health. Don’t give anyone the power to control your emotions , to dictate your moods or command your life .

Life is a tale told by an idiot full of sound and fury ,signifying nothing…how right was Shakespeare .

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