My Reverie

Does love make us weak or does it make us strong? Why is it fatal to fall in love and why is it fall? Why not rise in love? May be, as the emotion is inexplicable and complicated. Love explores a dichotomy of sorts, you win and lose at the same time, and it is like tasting success and failure simultaneously. May be as there are no absolutes in love, there are no rules of the game and the stakes are insurmountably high. Uncertainty is the name of the game, you might meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, but when you do, you will know why it never worked out with anyone else. Or you might know the perfect other from the moment you see the person, sometimes just a fleeting glance is enough to know what takes a lifetime to find out..They say, you never see love come, you only see it go, but I disagree, of course you see it come, you feel the rush, you experience the ecstasy, you discover the exhilaration, you get the spring in your step, you smile foolishly all the t

LIFE : AS YOU LIKE IT Why do we wait for something or someone all the time , why don’t we just turn around and start with where we are who we are as there will be never a perfect day to start living …. There are no absolutes, no black and white , a lot of blackish white and whitish black and greys, so we need to start where we are , with what we are, who we are and start living ….the way we want to live as they live the life you love and love the life you live.  The question remains why do we need someone’s sanction, someone’s approval to make us happy or find complete contentment. May be we are looking for reassurance that we are doing the right thing the right way …but  there is no right or wrong , there is your way and my way….the big question is how make my right work for you and vice versa….life is a sum of parts , there are no wholes, we just need to embrace every moment as it is in all its beauty or ugliness as the case , whether what is thrown at us by fate is   g