Golden Truths
Simple Truths …. I have learnt the hard way. 1. Think hard about who you want to marry, love might be blind but married life is an eye opener. 2. Try and focus on the marriage and not the wedding. As with time , the wedding is forgotten only the marriage matters. 3. Do not nurture any illusions about an ideal happy marriage as that is an oxymoron. There will ups and downs, there will be compromises may be more than you are prepared for. 4. Men and women are inherently, intrinsically different. They are like two parallel lines , you may live together but the Twain shall never meet. However agreeable and acquiescent your better half may seem, be prepared for your share of arguments and fights. 5. Take your man's words with a pinch of salt and generous dose of pepper. A lot is said just to make an impression in the early courtship period with an aim to please so don’t expect the poor man to actually do what he promised when you were